Saturday, June 27, 2009

is there really an Almighty exist..??

guyz,
after a long time I have come in front of you all...today is 27th june,09 ...but..this is not the day that i have realised of this thing..that there is is no such almighty god is present at all...
I just want to share a different point of view with u all...
according to the religious point of view..god have sent all of us for a special purpose.I think..we all know that..
but the thing I want to discuss with u is that we(human) have a average lifetime of around 60 yrs..isn't that..??
and if God sent us for a special purpose..then where is he/she when we cry for a faliure..??
where is he..when we try and try and try for a least little work but can't gets success..??
If He/She(the God) have created us..then it's his/her duty to come to us and atleast share the pains that we suffer and carry throughout the life..and if god dnt like to perform his/her duty then He/She has no right to get respect by us..
If we have to be alone(mentally not physically) in each and every phaze of life then why should we spend our time from our life to respect someone who even dnt bothered about us ever..
and if we stop that one and do the things in our own way then I think..we will enjoy the life in a full manner..
yaa...it's true that we have to face the probs of life and may be most of the time we wont get succeeded (if we think negatively)..but for the least little time that when we gets suceeded that time we will enjoy the joy alone and we dnt need to give the credit to someone else named God...

Flirting-what's it really is ?

flirting...or flirt..this is a common word for today's guyz...
bcoz...to be practical,by the natural intention the guyz or the girls always like to get noticed individually by their opposite sex..
I don't think that this one is ridiculous..to be clear..this is quite obvious..
Me too have done lot's of flirting to the girls (as i am a straight) ..., got a number of girls also who r intended to get called as girlfriends..

U all have done these stuffs...but is this the thing which we call flirting..???

someday ego...i had been watching a online video in the internet called "the interpretations of sex and love between the french and the english"
It's basically a debate which is done in between these two [french & english]...

The most interesting part i heard in that debate is when a fench personnel came forward to tell something about flirting...

He tolf that “flirt” in french terms could be defined as simple smile to everything you do up to the point before actual copulation..

I really loved the answer...that's a really good one to heard..

So,this definition is good to hear as a debate point.But,is this what we actually intended to mean as flirt??
Frndz..as per i believe,we like to flirt those girls whom we really like to get in the bed with us.We just love to imagine these girls to get in with us[must be in physical ways].In these days,we see a huge number of people and girls too,in the busy streets.But,we don't go to them and start flirt always..as per my knowledge concern...just we like to go to a certain kind of people whom we really like to get closer...

So,as per my point of view Flirting is a way to come in the highlight of a guy or girl or may be to get noticed to that special one with whom u really like to chat or do something more else..

isn't that..??

reply,if u have any other opinion..

The worst phaze of my life

Today is 01.08.2008
frndz...perhaps this one is the worst stage of my life...have completed the B.Tech...got the job also..but waiting to join...
when i was persuing the B.Tech,that time there was a amusement in my life..bcoz..i had to go to the college[rarely] and there were also lots of other things to do at that time..
bcoz..i had a routine [too bad routine..dnt ask for that one plz] at that time..but..now i have no routine..and u can't understand that what a shit life i am going to pass now..
wake up at morning 11/12 a.m. or 1 p.m. somedays...
then have nothing to do else going to play some boring computer games...boring bcoz..i played a large number of games at a time and these days i can't find any special interest to play the computer games...
listen some music or play some cards with friends...
in the evening again going to gossip with local frndz..
some people have found my lifestyle too much excellent to spend..but..it's quite bored now..
I really love to take some pressure or some work pressure..not for money..but.for time pass...
i think so..

Is asking “will you go out with me” a good way to ask a girl out?

Unless you’re under fifteen years old, this is an unacceptable way to ask a girl out. This begs the question whether or not other forms of asking this same question are also unacceptable.

For example… ”Will you court me?” or “May I court you?” Unless you’re in 14th Century England then this too is an unacceptale way to ask a girl out. The point is that this question should never be asked. Instead you might try asking a girl (or guy) a specific question or exclamation like, “Hey! Lets go grab a bite to eat sometime!” Although this isn’t a question, it still elicits a response. It also feels less like you’re asking him/her on a date and more like you’re just grabbing a bite to eat. The less you can make it feel like a date the better off you are.

Love - is this really exist ??

Perhaps this is the worst question i am going to ask ..specially to myself...
bcoz,the people who know me closely , they will definitely say about me that "How the hell he know that what love means..?"
bcoz..i have a number of girls in my life..each of them really love to listen the three very words from me that "I love U"...
That time i was very happy by these lovemaking..but these days (as i have nothing to do these days),it really make me to think about what love really is..
By the eternal definition of love we know that love is that thing for which u will have to lament for the other one and vice-versa.
But this one is quite rare in these days (perhaps was the rare one in the ancient days also)..
bcoz..i saw a lot of couple having fun in between them(including us..means me and my gf too)..when u r going to make love with ur partner that time u both will think that "we can't live each other"..or "we r made for each other" or something like that..
But when you(or the next one) breaks up with u, that time u (or that one whom u loved) easily adjust with other person..from my experience i can say that..
AS EXAMPLE :
The girl ,with whom i was engaged for more than one year and that time we were really intimate in between us..after the break up,whenever we have seen by each other,just both of us trying to get rid of us and go away.(this is another point that we both were with other mates at that time)..
But though,if u have really loved anyone for a certain time of ur life then how is this possible(considering the definition of real love as true) ??
So,as per my point of view real love does not extist at all...It's just the need of two people to pass the life ..nothing more ..and by the basic knowledge we can say that this one is not even the Love..this is just the need of all the shit selfish people around us(including me) to pass the life and enjoy the span of life..
there is no such love exist...