is there really an Almighty exist..??

guyz,
after a long time I have come in front of you all...today is 27th june,09 ...but..this is not the day that i have realised of this thing..that there is is no such almighty god is present at all...
I just want to share a different point of view with u all...
according to the religious point of view..god have sent all of us for a special purpose.I think..we all know that..
but the thing I want to discuss with u is that we(human) have a average lifetime of around 60 yrs..isn't that..??
and if God sent us for a special purpose..then where is he/she when we cry for a faliure..??
where is he..when we try and try and try for a least little work but can't gets success..??
If He/She(the God) have created us..then it's his/her duty to come to us and atleast share the pains that we suffer and carry throughout the life..and if god dnt like to perform his/her duty then He/She has no right to get respect by us..
If we have to be alone(mentally not physically) in each and every phaze of life then why should we spend our time from our life to respect someone who even dnt bothered about us ever..
and if we stop that one and do the things in our own way then I think..we will enjoy the life in a full manner..
yaa...it's true that we have to face the probs of life and may be most of the time we wont get succeeded (if we think negatively)..but for the least little time that when we gets suceeded that time we will enjoy the joy alone and we dnt need to give the credit to someone else named God...